We Were Destined

A letter from Winston Churchill to Clementine Churchill, 23 January 1935 (excerpt)

Winston Churchill, known for his wartime leadership and fierce intellect, also harboured a deeply romantic side. His marriage to Clementine Hozier spanned over 50 years, carried by devotion, respect, and a steady exchange of affectionate letters – especially during long stretches apart.

In January 1935, while staying at Chartwell, Churchill wrote to Clementine during her absence. Written at a time when Churchill was politically sidelined and emotionally reflective, the letter revealed his sense of vulnerability, gratitude, and enduring love. It is one of the most quoted of their private correspondences, often cited as evidence of the deep emotional anchor Clementine provided throughout Churchill’s life.

In this moment of honesty, Churchill steps away from the persona of the statesman and writes simply as a husband, expressing regret, admiration, and a deep belief that their union was destined.

My darling Clemmie,

In your letter… you wrote some words very dear to me about being married to me.

There is no need for you to say such things, but I cannot tell you what comfort and delight they give me.

I have loved you very much; but I wish I had been a better husband.

I have always admired your cleverness and your beauty…

But the fact that you have borne with me so long, and so often in absence, fills me with a sense of deep gratitude and affection.

We were destined to be together.

Love from your devoted,

Winston